how can you help me not what can you sell me with Richard Murphy
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How Can You Help Me, Not What Can You Sell Me?
We're often asked, "How can you help me, not what can you sell me?" The answer is as simple as it is profound.
It doesn't matter what you think. Everyone wants to be happy. What you have to understand is that we all have emotional needs and wants.
When we think about it, it makes sense that people should want to be happy. It doesn't matter how hard the day was or how bad the situation seems to be. If we are all in pain, we need to find someone to feel better about it.
We all need someone to love us for who we are. We need someone to tell us how much they love us for who we are.
And when we really want to be understood, we will sometimes forget to communicate what we need. So we ask ourselves, "Why do I want to be loved?" That's a good question.
We all want to feel loved. Even if we don't know how to say it. If we can just express it. If we express it, maybe we can get that recognition that it feels so good to be heard.
But the problem is, when we have a need, we want to give ourselves to others. You may have noticed that your child or spouse wants to be with their family and friends but doesn't. That is because they want to be needed.
As a parent, you understand that children don't want a need fulfilled, they want a need met. The problem with this is that children, especially teenagers, don't know how to communicate how they feel. It can be very difficult for them to express their needs.
This is the main reason that people want to help others. It isn't what they want to sell them. They want to find out how to connect with them in a way that they can help them feel what they need.
When people say they want to help them, they often mean they want to go beyond what they can do for them and connect with them. That means they want to work with them. They want to work to bring them closer to wholeness.
How can you help someone in their inner life when you are never able to connect with them? What you have to do is go beyond what you can do. You have to get past the circumstances and work on helping them find themselves.
So the next time you hear someone say they want to help you, ask them if they want to connect with you. Don't think they just want to help. Be able to relate to them and find out how they want to be connected with you.
How Can You Help Me, Not What Can You Sell Me
I get this question every day, and it is something that I never imagined that I would have to answer. People want to know How can you Help Me, Not what can you Sell Me.
I've read somewhere that the question above says that I sell you. Or I should say, "People want to know How can you Help Me, Not what can you Sell Me." Don't get me wrong; that's exactly what I'm trying to say. That is exactly what I'm trying to say.
However, if you truly are asking how can you help me, not what can you sell me, you probably don't have a clue about who I am. So let me provide you with a little background.
I started this business about five years ago because I needed to find a way to use my own personality to find great products that were being sold out of the latest marketing hype.
Most of the items I bought at a discount store looked and sounded good on paper, but I just couldn't get past the sales page. Those types of sites don't appeal to me.
It didn't take me long to realize that I would much rather sell something myself than pay someone else to sell it for me. And there is certainly nothing wrong with selling something yourself, provided you are getting the product at a great price.
The question, "How can you Help Me, Not what can you Sell Me," is best answered by having a proven track record for doing so. If you have developed a list of satisfied clients,
and they regularly buy from you, then you have done your homework. You know how to do it, and you know why.
What makes the difference between how can you Help Me, Not what can you Sell Me, is how you sell. The best way to sell products is to be clear about what the product is. I know
it sounds simple, but the results speak for themselves. When you don't know what you are selling, the customer will either be confused, or they won't buy from you.
That is exactly what most customers are looking for when they come to you for great products. They want to know how can you Help Me, Not what can you Sell Me.
If you are selling products that are too complicated, then you won't be able to get a customer to buy from you. In fact, many times that is exactly what you will get. Most of the time, they will walk away. The more simple your product is, the more likely you are to sell it.
Selling something complex is always more difficult. Because you are explaining your product to a customer, that customer is making their decision based on what they are seeing. If they cannot understand what you are saying, they will not be willing to buy from you.
So you see, it is always better to sell something simple. The simpler the better. The customer is looking for a low price. What you have to do is convince them that you're offering them a great price, and they will be back to buy more in the future.
So if you really want to know how can you Help Me, Not what can you Sell Me, you have to sell more products at a lower price. If you have built a good list of satisfied customers, they will buy from you for life.
How Can You Help Me, Not What Can You Sell Me
Have you ever thought about what is it that you can do for someone, and what are the things that you can help them do? What do you want to do for them? How can you help them? What can you sell them?
Here is a question that can be asked of anyone, but asks yourself this question: "If I could be able to help them in any way, how would that make me feel?" How does this answer
help you as an individual? Do you feel as if you are worthy of your life? Do you feel that you have more worth than you can convey through words? Are you asking yourself if you are ready to give something of yourself?
There are many things that people do not know about themselves, about their self-worth, their lives, their families, their relationships, their families' relationships, their entire way of living.
The challenge is knowing what you do not know, then sharing it with others who have more information.
People often say to me "I don't really know what it is like to be you." This is a valid observation because when we don't know what it is like to be us, there is no way that we can take the time to figure out if it's worth it.
The point here is that when people do not know themselves or their lives, how can they make with people they know happy? How can they make them feel loved and appreciated? How can they give the love that they should give?
You must think deeply about the things that you do before you think of asking how can you help me. In other words, it is not how can you help me, but what can you sell me? If you are going to ask how can you help me, I urge you to ask about what can you sell me.
Why is it important that you think about what can you sell me? The answer is very simple. You can't sell anything if you don't know what it is that you are selling.
It is important that you know more about your life. You cannot help others when you do not know your life. You cannot sell what you don't know what you are selling.
When you ask the question "How can you help me", you are asking if you are the best person to give the love that is needed. If you are not the best person to give the love that you need, then what can you sell me? What do you have to offer?
You don't want to give what you don't want. You want to give what you do want. You want to give what is meaningful to you. You want to give what is worth your life.
If you can figure out the answers to these questions, and if you can put them together, you can help others, and sell them what you want. You will learn more about yourself, your life, your feelings, your need for love, and the depth of love that you want.
The way to help someone is to make sure that you are loving yourself. Learn more about who you are, and what you want in your life. Then you can help others and sell them what they want in their lives.
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Will that's about all from me, this is Richard Murphy from New Zealand signing off until my next article.
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